Why do women date horrible guys? Girls want guys who know what they want and how to get it. Women want their men to be go-getters. We want our guys to know what they want and how to get it. 3 thoughts on “8 Reasons Gorgeous Girls Fall for the Douchebags” Mickey says: September 22, 2015 at 9:14 am “A lot of us women don.

Maybe they're so delusional that they just hit on girls without fear of rejection until they finally pick one up. But I don't get why some girls are all over these guys. Do you really mistake their over-compensation for confidence?

He’ll ignore us in front of his friends so he doesn’t appear “whipped.” If a guy’s friend group is comprised almost exclusively of frat bros with a warped view of masculinity and how to assert it, he’s likely to have a hard time understanding that treating a woman with respect isn’t the same thing as being “whipped”. He’ll say rude things while hiding behind a screen. Rejection is par for the course with online dating and most guys take it in stride. But we’ve all come across a couple who will fly of the handle and unleash every insult they can muster up. They’d never say it in person, but if they can send it in a message and then block the girl if she tries to fight back, they’re all over that. He tries to turn the tables to make us look like the bad guy.

Don’t assume that your date’s world view will mirror yours just because you share Latin heritage. Respect what you don’t know, ask questions, and be honest about your own relationship with God, faith, and tradition. Hispanic Dating: Take it Slow Before you make any smooth moves on your date, acknowledge that some Hispanic daters may have traditional, stricter dating rules and expect certain restraint or dating etiquette. As with any new relationship, Hispanic or not, discovering spiritual and cultural differences and commonalities is part of the adventure. Faith can be a deal-breaker, so share early on.

This list of shallow, obnoxious demands is a huge turn-off to me. It also discourages girls who do fit the profile. I assume he’s a militant asshole. If he’s that specific about how I look, I’m guessing he’ll also have a lot to say about what I eat, how I dress, and who my friends are. Here’s another guy, traveling a slightly different road to Douche City. Not as superficial as the first list, but Jesus, what a picky lunatic. Again, a list this long and specific discourages even girls who do match the description (if one even exists).

Those who don’t will move aside to make room for the someone you deserve. You expect a man to finance you. Gold-digging girls may get champagne and Kanye shout-outs, but there’s a real downside to being on someone’s payroll: they often see you as just another item they purchased (and treat you as such).

Besides, putting down your own credit card like a #boss with a confident “I got this” feels damn good. You play it so “cool” that your relationship turns cold. In the beginning, it’s normal to relax and see where things go, but if you’re catching feelings and not sure where you stand five months in, the ambiguity is going get to you (and likely lead to behavior that’s going to get to him). RELATED: While demanding or agreeing to exclusivity on the second date is a little much (don't), it’s perfectly normal to ask how the other person feels about things to gauge whether or not you’re on the same page — especially if you’re doing the no-pants dance. It’s “cool” to be honest about who you are and what you want and to accept the other person’s right to feel what they feel and make a decision that works for the two of you. No blame or drama necessary. You see him as a fixer-upper.

Male feminists can’t be corrected. They know it all, you see. I suspect Joss will come out with a Sad Boner Confessional in which he promises to do better, apologises to feminists for “letting them down”, and subtly blames fame, women and his own dick for his behavior. Perhaps he’ll discuss his various mental illnesses he suddenly has, just to really ramp up the pity.

And I've never thought about that really until now. This entire situation has been really stressful on me - not to make it about myself - but I just don't know what to do. I HATE cheaters. I've been cheated on and I think it is really low behavior. I would never approve of that type of behavior.

Freaked out about being a virgin. Finally dated some women that I only sort of liked, but it was great practice for future relationships. Since then, I've dated scores of women and had dozens of relationships. I'm old by reddit standards. First, you're confused about 'the two main models'. Most successful men approach dating with something in between the two models you described.

Why are there women who put up with being treated badly by their guys? From a girl’s standpoint, here are a number of plausible reasons. Douchebags, for the lack of a more appropriate term, are the guys who treat women like toys. Some call them pimps, playboys, bad boys or playahs. These are the guys you see in the streets or at random public places visibly treating their women with various levels of disrespect. There are also those who are just a bit too conscious. They are the douchewads, another term for them, who don’t necessarily scream, but are viciously passive aggressive.